I am going to reproduce the whole piece here; please do read my take at the bottom.
Tragic truth about caste
Why even members of India's lowest classes cling to unfair system
BY SHIKHA DALMIA THURSDAY, JANUARY 19, 2012
Dear Marta,
Good to hear from you! It seems you are still attached to India. I remember how you disliked that Indians employ 'servants' to do their work. Now, I too hate if there is someone at call to do my bidding, who subordinates his own wishes and well-being to providing me service. But, that is not the case here. A servant gets paid for his/her labour and the payment is not wages; it's price. And the servant - or the service-provider - may choose not to provide service to an individual. 'Good' families teach their children to respect all work and the children - even after they grow up - address the servants respectfully as "uncle" or "aunty".
She says, Maya has an inviolable right to her household and neither her family nor those from Maya's community have the authority to snatch those rights away from Maya. Don't you see, such an arrangement can exist only if both the communities have been residing in the same place for generations and the customs have become rigid? This is possible only in an age-old village where the roots of tradition are strong. The tradition binds the lower caste people to the despicable work and also binds the high caste to one particular lower caste family. The relationship is not of sale and purchase - a commercial relation; but of lords and surfs, a feudal one.
I have not seen anything like it here in Mumbai. When I was a child, I know a young man used to come to our house on his weekly-offs and help my mother in household chores. He cleaned the house, went to the market, etc. All because my father had helped him (and his brother) get a good, permanent job. We were poor too! But the feudal values prevailed so much that he subordinated himself to serving us. My father did pay him, but that was gratis. The young fellow never expected it as a right. I used to be extremely uncomfortable with this man and I hated his attitude of subservience.
Mumbai is an ever-growing industrial city and frankly, I can't imagine modern Delhi to be otherwise. New suburbs are always coming up in Mumbai where everybody is new and no tradition exists. Moreover, the people living together in a building or a cluster of buildings come from similar economic strata; they belong to the same class (who can afford the amenities the apartments provide), not to the same caste. Nor to a section of castes - upper, middle, lower. A very senior member of our housing society comes from an erstwhile untouchable caste. I have not seen anyone from the society treating him with anything other than respect. Yet it is true that not everybody in the housing society will invite him to participate in some caste-related ritual in their family.
Feudal values do persist in employer-employee relationships. Our maidservant takes pride in the fact that in the twenty-odd years that she has been working, she has been a loyal servant to every family. She left work only when the family moved out of the area. She will not demand more payment for extra work if she finds the household in financial difficulty. There are families which actively support the education of the children of housemaids. My wife and all my relations give one month's extra salary as 'bonus' to the servants on the eve of Diwali. Most of the family servants receive generous help from their employees. But the family definitely is not going to be happy if the housemaid's son turns out to be brighter in his career than one of their own!
And of course there are bad eggs to be found everywhere, but that is not the point. I think, the caste system persists because it gives one identity. People did go on pilgrimages before modern transport was introduced. The poor among them, who could not afford paid lodging and boarding, went to the alley (literally pronounced as aalee with the rounded L if you know what I mean) where people of their caste resided and they were given shelter honourably. Anyone going on a pilgrim was honourable and it was one's duty (and it still is) to treat a guest as respectfully as one can. And a person of your own caste is like your brother!
Imagine, what security the custom provided. The modern society rewards ability irrespective of one's birth standing. So, everyone has the chance to 'make it'. But don't you see that would make one lonely? Modern society is made up of individuals; each a lonely individual. Worse, now they want you to sacrifice all your interests to the company, to the job. So, your best friend is your nearest colleague. And he is also your bitterest enemy because he competes with you. Not everyone is able to withstand this crazy way of existence. And then you meet someone from your caste who will help you even if he is not related to you. Who will share values, dialect, customs with you.
I am not a supporter of the caste system but I don't find it either mysterious or loathsome. The only way to destroy the caste system, is to disregard it in public life. The caste system must be destroyed because it gives rise to discrimination. But again, think, I can afford to disown my caste because I don't need the security the caste provides! I am a high-caste person and I shall automatically have some upper hand in public life because my manner, my dialect, my references, my upbringing, all will loudly proclaim that I command values which are held as 'high' by the entire fibre of the society. However, is it right for me to demand that a new migrant to the city also forego whatever help - both material benefit and emotional support - he may get from his fellow caste members?
You have been to India. It probably is the most diverse society on earth. We do not generally perceive a person with different faith, manner, language, colour or features, as a threat. In Mumbai, it is an everyday experience. In a way, every community in India is a minority community. How do you think do we manage to stay together? Think. Law is so superfluous.
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