There is much more to the film than the mild feel-good drama. Read to the end!
I
found the film a pretty straightforward story moving along an entirely
predictable path. A feel-good narrative with no unexpected twists. Much of its
strength lies in the excellent casting. Everybody is so natural that calling a
performance good or bad would be irrelevant.
Of
course Sridevi excels as Shashi. With her expressive face and an equally
expressive body language, words become superfluous; which works well for the
film since a film that keeps jumping between English and Hindi would be a
boring film if it was verbose. The storyline is short and proceeds without
straying. A thoroughly competent woman is looked down upon by her family just
because she is not able to speak English. Then she suddenly has to go to New
York where she joins an English-speaking class and overcomes her handicap. In
the process, she also gets a big boost to her confidence and earns her family’s
respect.
Shashi,
the protagonist, is good at making laddoos which she sells to make a moderate
income. In the class, she learns the word ‘entrepreneur’ in her own context. The
realization that she is an entrepreneur in her own right, has an effect on how
she looks at herself. Then there is the Frenchman who falls for her and that adds
to her self-esteem. She has her feet firmly on the ground and never does she
become a flirt or even coquettish. The director has depicted Shashi’s
development sensitively, without ever trying to extract cheap drama. Shashi is
not a typically tradition-bound character to begin with. This saree-clad homemaker
herself delivers her laddoos and enjoys very good rapport with her customers.
She boldly ventures to join the class in a strange land entirely on her own.
The film makes this explicit when Shashi’s New Yorker niece Radha cites
Shashi’s example to explain the meaning of ‘judgmental’. “One would be judgmental
to call you conservative merely by your outward looks,” says she to her aunt. And
yes, Shashi is not disturbed by the overtures of the Frenchman and she is even
able to keep her cool when things threaten to go overboard. Radha puts it succinctly:
Hota hai kabhi kabhi!
That
brings us to an issue, which I think is at the heart of the tale though it is
kept in soft focus, so to say.
Shashi
is telling the truth when she says that she is not in need of love; she wants
respect. The Indian Family is adept at this: smothering a homemaker woman’s
faculty to receive love as an individual; she is loved as a wife, as a mother,
as a daughter-in-law; these roles define her completely and there is nothing
left in her outside of these roles. The traditional married woman is the fulcrum
of the household and she provides strong support to all members of the family and
by implication, needs no support herself. Her subjugation is voluntary and she learns
to worship the very institution which leaves her with no identity apart from
the roles she adopts to fit in the institution.
Shashi
is quite eloquent when she explains her perception of ‘the family’. Her speech
is for the consumption of both her family as well as the errant Frenchman. It
goes home. She is apparently unaware of the crux of the issue but her husband
is not. After her emotional, yet restrained entreaty for respect; he asks her:
Do you still love me? And the question is asked very quietly; not bashfully,
becoming of a repentant husband.
Now
a few things that rankled.
Why
does the family have to be ‘Godbole’? It could easily have been some Punjabi
family residing in Pune if it had to be Pune. Why would Godboles have Parathas
for breakfast? Being in Pune, why in the world would they read a Hindi
newspaper? Doesn’t make sense. The laddoos that Shashi makes, are not Marathi
laddoos, they are eminently North Indian laddoos. Would it have been
inconvenient to show India as a multicultural, multilingual country? Would the
overseas viewer be somehow deterred by that? Maybe that would have added a
diversionary aspect to this tale. But it must be said that the counter
question, ‘Aren’t you comfortable in India without knowing Hindi?’ which effectively
silences the American Consulate officer, also insults all non-Hindi people by completely
ignoring their existence.
However,
the overall impression is ‘passes with excellent marks!’
There
are some more issues that the film raises.
The
story of a woman getting back at her family cannot end here. Where will this
enlightened woman proceed now? She already has begun to see herself and her
life in a new light. If the process continues – and Shashi definitely is not
dumb – she is bound to stumble upon a few revelations about the family system,
how its stability stands on the voluntary sacrifice by the lady of the house
and so on. It would be patent male chauvinistic callousness to say that she
will continue as before, sacrificing her aspirations, sacrificing her just-learnt
sense of individual identity. Because such sacrifice must be perceived as a
great tragedy and how to do that in the given context?
Then
there is the newly enlightened husband. What will he do? Will he or will he not
squirm when she hands him his daily tiffin? Maybe he will be smart enough to magnanimously allow her to carry on her laddoo business as an enterprise!
That
is not all. Yes, it is a tragedy when a sensitive and capable mind goes
unbloomed, even when that person is a woman and what she immerses herself in is perceived as
her bounden duty to the Holy Family System. But what is the alternative? There
is no guarantee that everything will be hunky dory if she opts to be a sovereign
human being and begins to act independently. Nobody has that guarantee. The
women who, by choice or otherwise, remain within the restrictive, yet warm
protection of the family, never have to take the acid test. The world outside
is full of foxes and wolves. Will Shashi be able to survive that? Will she make
it, if she takes the plunge?
We
demand a sequel, Ms Shinde!
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